Ever wondered what goes on in their mind? These strange creatures that live in our homes, eating everything in sight, and rolling their eyes when we make suggestions. They are TEENS. We have launched into the teenage world with this amazing young senior who is living under our roof, preparing for college, playing baseball, and working. Seriously, overnight we went from our eldest being 13 to our eldest being 17. Should we be afraid? No. This adventure in parenting has taken a new, exciting turn.
We are now in the Trust; Obey; Hope; Pray; Contend; Sacrifice; Persevere; and Love phase. Not that we weren’t there before, but we now have less influence. It’s true, the time of choosing their play dates, clothes, hairdos, music, and meals is over. I remember when we went to the park to meet up with multiple families because I loved their MOMS, and my kids played with whomever. It’s harder to get to know families of kids in school, especially college.
So we do not lose heart, and we do not faint. We set expectations. For those with teens who have grown up in their home they know the expectations, and they are worth repeating. We expect purity. Keep your mind pure by thinking on things that are holy and lovely. Keep your body pure by practicing self-control and wisdom, not following the culture. Trust God to lead you in your endeavors as you seek Him. Keep your body healthy by eating whole foods and exercising. Set your mind and hands to work hard and serve others with a spirit of excellence. Follow the Ten Commandments. These things we have set as expectations from the beginning, and we gradually bring them into situations now, even with a new resident. Our expectations haven’t changed, just our audience. So we pray over each discussion as God leads our children into His presence. May His love show through these expectations and in every discussion!